Friday, June 27, 2014

Finding the power to ask for help.


Ok so my reading style has changed, like overnight.  

Today's love message:  The Cross Card talks about burdens, labors of love, it makes me think of taking care of children or old people, like you do it because you're supposed to and hopefully you have love in your heart with these burdens.  

Put all these cards together and I see someone who is maybe burning out.  Love is a big word and comes in many forms and it family relationships and hard core friendships can be more work then play and fun and....it's like something is a bit too real.

I also see that we need to be strong enough and empowered enough to admit when we need more support, more help, just more from the people around us.  So this could mean telling your loved ones that you need them to start doing more to pick up slack...like having the kids start taking on a chore list. You may be telling yourself that you are the one who should be doing more and questioning why you don't have more of your own sh-- together.  These three cards all indicate that we need to remember we are human beings, not robots.

So the first angel card comes in with the suggestion that we need some alone time.  We need a designated break.  We need to be left alone so we can have a coherent thought and breathe.  The other card is like validating this is a power and control issue at the core.  You at the very least Spirit may be bringing changes into your life where you are forced to be alone so that you can think about how you can bring in more support to the daily grind.

Now what does this mean for romance and sex and love?  You can't have great romance and sex and love if you're too tired because you're taking care of everything.  You matter too.  And you lose touch with your self and your own needs and desires when you are always pulled in a million different directions.

I bless you all with intense romance and crazy sex.  Remember intimacy is a good thing.


Cards pulled from these lovely decks.





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